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Love at first sight
Love at first sight
Love at first sight. It’s the age old story that your grandma tells you about how she met grandpa. They were at a school dance or at a party and they were sitting at opposite sides of the room and all of a sudden there eyes meet one gives a grin and the other grins back, it then takes an hour or so for one of them to work up the courage to walk up to the other and sit down and talk and they realise from the moment that there eyes met in gaze that they new they would be together forever and it was Love at First Sight.
Now most of us think that that has to be the biggest load of bull this side of the earth. But that is because many of us have never had the opportunity to really be free to be open to this sort of experience because out inhibitions are always holding us back. Whether it be because of being depressed, drunk, distracted or just to entwined in our work life. And Love at first sight is something that many of us do no believe in until it happens to us.
At some point, many of us have an experience where we walk into a room, a club, a friends house, wherever and we happen to lock eyes with someone so perfect that we can’t look away. We are immediately filled with anticipation and excitement, and the eye contact continues throughout the night until you finally talk. When you finally do speak, you just seem to click. You like the same things, you finish each others sentences, and you are sure that this is what love at first sight is all about.
But as the days go by and those days turn into weeks, and then you realise that as you get to know each other better that perfect relationship turns out to be not so perfect. Once you step outside of the overwhelming sensations of getting to know someone new you might realize that this isn’t love at first site, but lust at first sight. Don’t get me wrong lust at first sight is not a bad thing at all. Sometime’s the most intense lust turns to love, therefore kinda ends up still being love at first site. So don’t assume that you should just give up as soon as you realize its not real love at first sight.
Love at first sight is something that many people believe in because they’ve had it happen to them. Others are a bit jaded because those that they thought were their love at first sight happened to be anything but a dream. Either way, it’s a powerful experience to have felt so connected to another individual so quickly that you were able to call it love. Whether it lasts is something that is totally individual and unique to each relationship, but it is possible. Love is one of the most powerful emotions to ever to feel, and whether it lasts for a minute or a lifetime you are very lucky to have experienced it at all.
So, do you believe?
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