What Women WantWhat Women Want
 A fairly common question men ask is what do
women really want?They say things like "I want a nice fella" but then they end up with a total looser. Or they go out with the "bad boy". When a guy asks me that question, I normally ask them why do u want to know? Each and every woman seems to want something different so it isn’t something we can answer for anyone else. Before a guy should ask that question he should be able to first truthfully answer, "what does he want in a woman?" Every man the same as every woman has a different set of beliefs, values, and preferences and really should put some thought on how important they are to him or her. Using myself as an example, I'm at a point in my life where I don't want to be in a relationship I am looking for casual friendships and the occasional one nighter. So the top of my list in looking for what I want in a woman right now; is that she has to be fun and easy-going. Where as someone else may be looking for a woman that places at the top of there list things such as family, communication, security, etc. Once u have figured out what u really want in a woman, then it makes it so much easier for you to pick women that do fit what you are looking for allowing you to be able to focus your time and energy on only those types. So back to the original question now that I have given you more questions of your own to answer "what do women really want?” Every woman is different, but over the years I've noticed some things in common that they share. We are of course assuming that we are also talking about normal serious no baggage women who are healthy that are not dealing with a lot of personal issues. This is some of the common things that women want. 1. Women want a real man – This is a very common comment I hear from women from around the world; it is hard to find a man who has a spine that isn’t either over the top or jelly. What does that really mean u ask. It means what they are looking for is a man who has his own opinion (not a yes man), a man who will stand up for him and for her both physically and emotionally. 2. Women want a man who can lead – Be it going out for a night on the town or in the bedroom, a woman wants a man who is not afraid to be in charge, to lead the way things will happen. Not being afraid to lead. Does not mean that he acts controlling or jealous or totally out of control, but quiet the opposite he will be a man who is either a natural leader or has learned his skills because he has dated a lot of women or just spent plenty of time around them, he will know when and how to lead if the situation arises. A good way of leading is to give your date a few options on what to do for the weekend that is coming up and then letting her decide. The first date though you should do what you like because this will help you decide if u both like the same things or not saving u heaps of time and problems. 3. Most women want a man, not a boy - A woman who is healthy and well balanced mentally and physically does not want to date a boy. She wants a man who has his own life and knows who he is and where he is going and what he has to do to get there. So for example he doesn't live with his parents, unless of course they’re in his granny flat down the back on holidays. He will have no financial problems except where he can spend his next dollars. 4. When she's ready she will want a man who is ready to settle down: With a woman when she starts to get feelings for you, She may start talking about the future, dropping hints like “we would make good looking kids” or we should take a holiday together away from all this or she may even tell you she loves you. When a woman makes says any or all the above it's a huge sign that she wants to take things to the next seriousness level. Some women casually date, but sooner or later most women want to settle down with someone. It's worth your while to keep an eye on what u want and to pay attention to what she's really saying to you. 5. Women want a man who take pride in themselves- did u ever have an old girlfriend hassle you about the way you dress, or even because you were starting to get a bit scruffy hair wise? Or even go shopping and find her either buying clothes for you or making suggestions of what would look good on you? Women want a man with style; most women don't like slobs. It appears most men don't have a good sense of style so dress to be comfortable all the time, which is why they should get help from a female friend or relative to go shopping for clothes with them. If that's not possible, simply going to the shops and look for the most attractive female assistant to help you. Having style sometimes isn't enough. You should also have a positive outlook toward life and where you are going. Women do find that attractive. No one likes a sook or a guy that’s depressing to have around, so if you have negative thoughts of yourself you will need to readjust that attitude first thing. Otherwise you might look back a few years from now and ask the same question "what do women really want?" |
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